Updated: Mar 29, 2020
With over 10 years in the BDSM lifestyle as a Dominatrix, I have encountered some things that just turn me off. Submissives I implore you to be on your best behavior when you are meeting with a Domme for a session. It amazes me that the biggest No, No’s in this industry are things that people do often. I mean some of the rules are suggested for safety. So follow them.
My biggest issue is Submissives who show up to a session under the influence of alcohol or some other substance. I can’t tell you the amount of times that subs show up whether online or in real time who are drunk! Honestly, I may laugh and make fun of it but I will promptly reschedule the session. I like my submissives in their clear mind because I want you to fully comprehend your lessons and teachings. Also I don’t want you to have to be punished for not doing what is demanded of you. It is dangerous for a submissive whom is drunk and inhibitions are lowered to engage in any activity where you are being told what to do and how to act.