With over 10 years in the BDSM lifestyle as a Dominatrix, I have encountered some things that just turn me off. Submissives I implore you to be on your best behavior when you are meeting with a Domme for a session. It amazes me that the biggest No, No’s in this industry are things that people do often. I mean some of the rules are suggested for safety. So follow them.
My biggest issue is Submissives who show up to a session under the influence of alcohol or some other substance. I can’t tell you the amount of times that subs show up whether online or in real time who are drunk! Honestly, I may laugh and make fun of it but I will promptly reschedule the session. I like my submissives in their clear mind because I want you to fully comprehend your lessons and teachings. Also I don’t want you to have to be punished for not doing what is demanded of you. It is dangerous for a submissive whom is drunk and inhibitions are lowered to engage in any activity where you are being told what to do and how to act.
My second issue is submissives who are are loud. Either during pegging or impact play there is no need for all of my neighbors to hear you! Lol! Although I like a vocal sub, I don’t want to have people think I’m killing you!
These are definitely not all of my pet peeves but they are my biggest.
Subs just be super mindful about how you are presenting your self to your Domme and acting while you are in session.