My first kinky experience was with a guy I met in New York. I was about 18 and we had been on a couple of dates. It was a 6'3" Black Male with a chiseled body and a sexy face. He drove a motorcycle in the summer and a black luxury car in the winter. He was so handsome that he made everyone stop and look.
So, one day we talked about sex and he told me that he was into BDSM. I had some knowledge about it but I wanted to know exactly what he wanted. And with the knowledge that I had, I knew that BDSM encompassed many things. So it is very important to know exactly the other person's kinks and limits.
So I must ask the question and listen to what he had to say. I asked him, What exactly did he enjoy within BDSM?; he replied that he was into cock and ball torture, he had a foot fetish and loves shoes and sensory deprivation via choking and pain. I was instantly aroused! I immediately wanted to know more.
He explained to me that he was in a relationship with a woman who was a Dominatrix and the one thing that he took a liking to was cock and ball torture. Further, he stated that he always had a "thing" for feet and shoes, so naturally, in his adult life, he incorporated this in his sex life. I was more intrigued, the more he talked and explained that he was a glutton for pain and he needed me to inflict it on him.
So after this conversation, we decided to meet and have a session. I was nervous but confident that I could exert the type of control that he needed. I did my research and watch as many videos as I could. And the day came. He took me to Aldo's shoe store and I picked out a sexy pair of red patent leather pumps. I tried on other shoes but the look on his face when I walked over to him was priceless.
We arrived at his house and I ordered him to strip, leaving him and his cock vulnerable. I instructed him to then kneel by the couch as he would put these sexy high heels on. One by one he slips the shoes on my feet. I stand up and walk to the corner of the living room and instruct him to crawl over to me and stand in the corner. He quietly and quickly did what I instructed and POW! One swift knee to the cock. He was surprised and this made him aroused. I grabbed a hold of his 9" & 3/4 " cock and squeezed and twisted it which almost brought him down to his knees. I laughed so very hard at him buckling at the knee. The night progressed once I chopped him down to size and made him kiss all over my shoes.