What was your first kinky sexual experience?

Updated: Mar 29, 2020


My first kinky experience was with a guy I met in New York. I was about 18 and we had been on a couple of dates. It was a 6'3" Black Male with a chiseled body and a sexy face. He drove a motorcycle in the summer and a black luxury car in the winter. He was so handsome that he made everyone stop and look.


So, one day we talked about sex and he told me that he was into BDSM. I had some knowledge about it but I wanted to know exactly what he wanted. And with the knowledge that I had, I knew that BDSM encompassed many things. So it is very important to know exactly the other person's kinks and limits.


So I must ask the question and listen to what he had to say. I asked him, What exactly did he enjoy within BDSM?; he replied that he was into cock and ball torture, he had a foot fetish and loves shoes and sensory deprivation via choking and pain. I was instantly aroused! I immediately wanted to know